Human....never change

Living in the world for more than 20 years really had open my eye and make me more mature. Sometime, it was disappointing to see how human behave and are not considerate at all. Human never change. It have been 20 years and I can know how to tell whether the person is good or bad. Life is bad too. The world is full of friends but also lot of enemy. Sometime before we go for battle, we lost to our most trusted friends. It might be difficult to accept this point, but one day, without notice friend betray us and make life so miserable.

I was glad that till today all this never happen to me yet, but my eye can see. The world is full of human that is 'plastic'(k-worker friends will know what i mean). How many people said thank you from their heart? How many people did appreciate helps? How many of us did remember the good things someone did to us?

On the other side, we as human remember what people do bad to us. A feeling of anger that create revenge feeling. We say thanks for the sake of saying thanks so people will never said bad about us, we smile not because we happy but merely to entertain other people.

Human resist to change. The give reasons. They give excuses. They give lot of explanation just to protect their view....Human say they change! YES they did change...but HOW much the change?Change to be better?or even worst?

In life there is nothing right or wrong. Is US, the HUMAN who came up with law, regulation, code of conduct and lots more to govern our life. Who care to follow? Who care to change? Who care to listen and act? WHO CARES?

We search friend everyday hopefully we can be happy and can get help if we needed. It make life happier and easier. We treat them like family. We hope to add more friends rather than an enemy. Day pass and pass, friends become more but enemy will also be more. Sometime, because another person hate your friends, he/she will also choose to hate you. Day by day, you notice some of your friends might have the intention to brain wash you. Day by day you found your friends want to USE you...day by day you found your friend wanted to betray you....BUT you choose to trust them. Trust them based on years of relationship, build as strong as concrete wall. But even concrete wall might fall one day, you sometime found your best friend betray you..Even your most trusted friends. Even nowadays, family betray you.

I believe those people are very minimal and less. Human sometime do something out of their mind because they was force to. Life is hard and challenging. To get something you might need to scarifies another things. Is opportunity cost. We choose to forgive them hoping the friendship never die. We rebuild trust...We rebuilt relationship. We rebuild friendship.

If human did change, maybe forgiveness is the answer! what happen human didn't change again. Is another forgiveness serve as the answer? If human did change, hopefully they change to be a good guy and not a bad guy...Even changes can bring to harm....

So where is the line....the line that divide good and bad...The line that separate human evil and human kindness....The line that clearly stated what is right what is wrong...The line lies in human mind. Either human wanted to be a good person or bad. Either kind or ego...Selfish or generous, right or wrong.....

So human...wake up....be yourself and stop blame others....You are YOU....We are all human....we can choose....we have own path....If you think you are good, improve...if u think u had been bad Guy for long, change to be good....if u think been a bad guy is damm good, continue your life as one day, the judgement day will come. Is was hell and heaven that tell us who are we...

........opps.............sorry if i sound mean...Just expressing my mind....wahaha...thanks for been such a good friends of mine....Really thankful to have u bunch of people as my friends...